Let’s get real. Even though dating is supposed to be romantic, sex plays a major role in it. In fact, apps like Tinder, Match, OkCupid, etc., embrace the culture of fast dating. You can get down to business right away, or you want to get to know each other first, those apps make all preferences possible in the quickest way.
Here, we’ll discuss how you can be a straight-to-the-point person on the first date without necessarily being a stud or slut.
State Your Sexual Intention as Earliest as Possible
Some people will feel uneasy about this, and you may end up getting blocked by several of your date candidates, but this option is much much better and safer than making them disappointed later. According to plansexe.com, sexual compatibility is a vital topic to discuss between lovers. And if you think you can change your date’s mind later after both of you know each other, the whole date is at risk of being abusive and toxic. You can’t change a person. Even if you can, the path to get there is not worth the effort.
Maintain the Decency
Now that you and your date know you guys are in it for the sex, it does not mean that the intercourse should be void of intimacy. In fact, it must be quite the opposite. He/she agrees to spend nights with you only for sex, surely because they are sexually attracted to you. And you should amplify that trait by doing things that appear to be sexy to them, indeed. But it does not mean that you can omit foreplay kisses and cuddles. If you don’t know how to treat your partner as a lover because you think there is no love involved, at least treat them as a human, unless, of course, you guys sign up for the relationship for a humiliation or BDSM kinks.
Show Them That It Is Safe to Be Around You
The concept of consent is supposed to be your guiding beacon if you’re going to have sex on the first date. Realistically speaking, you guys have not known each other enough, and there will be different preferences of sex. In that case, you have to talk it out. For example, if you’re into anal sex, and he/she is not, you have to discuss it with them first. Never ever jam your cock into your partner without their consent. Remember that a one-night-stand can turn into a lawsuit these days. …Read More